Getting help for your child at school

I have found adoptive families face many of the same issues. One of the most common non-behavioral issues seems to be IEPs (Individualized Education Plans). The laws regarding IEPs make it complicated for most of us to figure out. Many of us have had to battle a school or talk to a local AEA to fight for our children to get the extra help provided by an IEP.

However, as a parent, you have a right to get an evaluation and you have a right to appeal any decision made by your local AEA. But without knowing the laws, parents may often give up out of confusion and frustration.

A support specialist can you help you find resources to help. For example, Nancy, an adoption information specialist for IFAPA, is a good resource. I talked to Nancy recently to get information for a family I was working with. Nancy has years of experience working with AEAs and knows what resources parents can tap into.

The state of Iowa also has a federally funded program that helps parents deal with issues regarding their local AEA. Parent Training and Information Center of Iowa in Des Moines has an attorney on staff and can assist you in an appeal or by answering any questions you have.

Another good resource for parents is Wrightslaw. This website has accurate, up-to-date information about special education law and advocacy for children with disabilities.

Here's some tips Nancy shared for advocating for your child:

1) Ask in writing for a special education evaluation and send it to the school certified.
2) Ask for an evaluation under both IDEA and Section 504.
3) Be specific about what kinds of problems you think the student has and use examples.
4) Make sure the district and AEA keep to the required timelines and do everything necessary for the student.
5) Invite people to the IEP meeting who can help you advocate for the child.

Your post adoption support specialist can help you set up meetings with your school principal and AEA and can also attend to help you advocate for your child. We can help you navigate the process and also work with you to find the resources you need to get the services your child needs.

Get started with support services here.